The most happy and healthy relationships and connections: familial, personal, and professional have one thing in common at the most fundamental level; They connect
to one another at the intersection of authentic desire.
You cannot generate positive experience if you operate out of fear, nor can you build a lasting relationship based up doubt, either. Moreover, when you
utilize the idea of the strongest or weakest link, you cannot connect with another person successfully if they are using fear to mask their authentic desire.
The first thing that needs to be established in any connection is the desired outcome of the togetherness at the level of your own intention. Equally as
important, is establishing the desired outcome in the other person with whom you are communicating.
When you evaluate both in equal proportions, you come to spiritually defined sound reasoning. This is vitally important in accessing areas in your life in
which you will grow to greater awareness, autonomy, and personal satisfaction.
Anytime that your personal desire is transposed to become that of a personal interests, you lose grounding and balance in your life. This can lead not only
to a weakening of your personal resolve, but also to a static position in relation to personal growth. For this reason, this sort of misalignment with destiny is
to be avoided--and it can almost always be avoided via personal, wizened choice.
The challenging part of this equation, is determining if desire is truly authentic within yourself first. This is because, to affect certain outcomes, people
often delude themselves as to what outcome is not only possible, but probable as well. Even more challenging from this point, is determining if the person of
your interest is operating out of a place of authentic desire. Because, if the person you are trying to influence and/or connect with is not operating from
a place of authentic desire, it will dilute your authentic desire in association.
For this reason, it is highly important to make certain that when you choose in relationships, you choose well. Your desires become your experiences only when
given the latitude to be authentic in nature. Authenticity in nature leads to a powerful presence of self in time.
You also help others to find their true desires when you exhibit the valor it takes to proceed with your own. People see you as empowered and in control of your
life, even if they don't understand how to achieve it themselves. You can be highly influential in helping others to see this--not by changing them, but commanding
your own destiny path.
When you connect with Spirit via your higher self, you will begin to feel the energy within you to accelerate in forward movement towards your fondest desires.
Should you find that you cannot fully engage with this elemental part of your purpose in the waking state, the dream state is a very spiritual and dynamic place
to begin to explore this realm.
The landscape of your dreams is more than emblematic of what has occured in your life related to you symbolically. It is like beginning a work of art, in which you
have complete command of how the finished product will emerge.
The Mystic Writer,
Jared Mars
To thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man. -- William Shakespeare