Blaming is a happiness robber. What a statement, huh? I have been there and done that, sadly I had no idea I was blaming, I honestly thought I was the victim, poor me! A wise woman said to me, "What makes you think it's all about you?" After I got over the shock of that statement, I realized she said that to wake me up. Shame came into play at that moment. That's when I vowed I'd start taking responsibility for my own life rather that counting on others to make me happy. I started looking for solutions and asking my self "What can I learn from this, What is the gift in this for me? The answers staring coming slowly, solutions came next, and the next thing I knew there weren't any more situations for me to find solutions to. Now don't get me wrong, I don't have a cushy life, but I've learned trust, faith, and looking for solutions just about solve anything. Thank you for reading, Renee
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