Suddenly married folks are crawling out of the woodwork. You get the eye from married guy at the self checkout. Married women suddenly seem very interested in you. It seems as if all these attractive people that you've been encountering are MARRIED! AHHHHH!!!!
Well, love is love. I cannot say that you are "wrong" for entering a relationship with a married or taken person. And you should not shame yourself for doing so, go easy on yourself. But let's pretend for a moment that your ideal man/woman had a twin. Let's say that ideal partner was married, but the twin was single.
What would you prefer? It's true that sometimes there is a thrill to be found in getting involved with someone that's, well, involved. But this can be messy and lead to hurt feelings.
If there is a part of you that believes you can never have a fulfilling relationship, then you will attract people that will dissapoint you. If there is a part of you that thinks there are only so many partners to go around, or that all the good ones are taken, then you send that message out to the universe. If you believe that you must always fight or compete to get what you want, if a part of you resents the idea of marriage or committment, if a part of you resents your own gender...yep, you send that message out to the universe.
And that's when you get bombarded with married and taken folk. So if you are tired of this, start creating momentum in a different direction. Start stating to the universe, "I AM attracting the perfect partner for me that is single and ready to commit to me, I AM attracting relationships that are very pleasing and flow smoothly! I KNOW that there is IMMENSE and TOTAL love for me, all around me!"
Keep stating these affirmations to the universe. State your intentions. You will start encountering more single, attractive people then you could possibly imagine. But keep tabs on your vibration. Make sure you believe it is possible to have these amazing experiences, that amazing love. Send a clear message of what you want. It will begin to come to you.
Well, love is love. I cannot say that you are "wrong" for entering a relationship with a married or taken person. And you should not shame yourself for doing so, go easy on yourself. But let's pretend for a moment that your ideal man/woman had a twin. Let's say that ideal partner was married, but the twin was single.
What would you prefer? It's true that sometimes there is a thrill to be found in getting involved with someone that's, well, involved. But this can be messy and lead to hurt feelings.
If there is a part of you that believes you can never have a fulfilling relationship, then you will attract people that will dissapoint you. If there is a part of you that thinks there are only so many partners to go around, or that all the good ones are taken, then you send that message out to the universe. If you believe that you must always fight or compete to get what you want, if a part of you resents the idea of marriage or committment, if a part of you resents your own gender...yep, you send that message out to the universe.
And that's when you get bombarded with married and taken folk. So if you are tired of this, start creating momentum in a different direction. Start stating to the universe, "I AM attracting the perfect partner for me that is single and ready to commit to me, I AM attracting relationships that are very pleasing and flow smoothly! I KNOW that there is IMMENSE and TOTAL love for me, all around me!"
Keep stating these affirmations to the universe. State your intentions. You will start encountering more single, attractive people then you could possibly imagine. But keep tabs on your vibration. Make sure you believe it is possible to have these amazing experiences, that amazing love. Send a clear message of what you want. It will begin to come to you.