I was moved to write about my own ethics and morals regarding my readings. Every psychic I know is a little different, like every person. Each with their styles and experiences. We each have our own voice from the other side.
When people call me, I often pick up other things around them I do not address because they are focused on a different direction. I have tried before, and had clients gently pulled me back on their topic. It is their money so I go where they want me to. However I still pick up the energy.
Some very sophisticated callers will point blank say something like “I know we are meant to be, so just tell me what he is physically doing right now.” I tell them. I have really no issue except I will tell people to remember they only asked about ……….. Just so it is clear to my clients, 99% are terrific and I have a great bond with them.
I have 24 years of recovery, from alcohol, codependence, and I work on my own life. However, because of my path, so I also pick up dysfunction. My guides will tell something that helps me as they are answering my client’s questions. Most of my client have an idea about my recovery, as well as people who read these bogs.
My guides tell me when they lie, when they are angry, when there is more to the situation that they want to divulge. I have always said I give spiritual readings, I am not a fortune teller.What I will tell you is spiritually is that I see you suffer. Sometimes I will see you need a different kind of help.
I can feel when clients are so depressed that they are not leaving their house and yet want a man to fall in love with them. They share with me when my clients have this great business idea and call because they need support to follow through, fearful of rejection. I feel the days when the solutions seem to vanish before my clients eyes, and yet the problems are stacking up. When there is not money, or when They have had a couple of glasses of wine before they call. I do pick it up.
Just so you know, my guides show me with love. They do not judge it they show me. Sometimes they show me and you call me because I am the right person, with the right connection, and even some suggestions. Your guides know what you need, even if it is not what you want. They do it to me too.
I have listened to 1000’s of stories; I personally have no right to judge anyone about anything. I do however embrace empowerment. If you ask me don’t expect me to answer in a way that is dysfunctional and keeps the illusion alive. That part of me is the life coach.
Years ago, I was a bottom of a dark pit. I was afraid of dying and didn’t know how to live. I drank everyday, and ate almost nothing but sugar. I had no marriage, no hope for a future and the idea of any kind of normal life, I couldn’t fathom. One day at a time I put the drink down, and gained an amazing life. I did not do it by continuing to live in delusion. I became willing to learn something different. The definition of insanity I learned in AA is doing the same things and expecting different results.
Just so you know there is real love that will show up for you and a life that can be joyful to live in. Love doesn’t create so much pain. I do know how to use my ability to put you in the right direction. This is my offering to this tapestry of readers.