Okay ladies, I'm writing this blog as much for me as I am for any of my readers / customers. Psychic abilities, at least with someone who has experience and training, can be incredibly useful and practical. You can find water for your house as in the case of Dowsing, adjust your diet to match your body, communicate with the dead, find a missing person or object, reconstruct historical events and know what really happened, discover religious truths, etc. There really is no limit when it comes to what you can focus on.
But what is the one thing that most people calling me want to know about? Love and relationships.
Being a male psychic puts me in a unique position to understand both sides of the issue when it comes to love. I can read people like a book in person. There is nothing that they are thinking that escapes me; I perceive it all. I can discern motivations, memories, intentions, previous injuries, past events and future probabilities. Being an empath and very emotionally intense, I cry at movies, even goofy ones like Tangled and Mega Mind! Any time there is a transformation of character, I am touched. In that sense, I am atypical from most other men.
My Sun Sign is Leo, which makes me all about children. I love children! I will bend over backwards to put a smile on a child's face (as long as it's not putting them in danger or instilling bad habits in them). The innocence and purity of children is a gift from God. I remember it, even though I don't have it anymore; I honor it in them!
I am incredibly interested in spirituality, philosophy and psychic development. I love comparative religious studies. I can't stand watching football or any other organized sport on TV! Now, if you invite me outside to play a sport, I'm there! But watching it, I'll pass. I must have a clean house and my children will never be neglected unless I'm deathly ill.
I'm a hopeless romantic, love flowers (roses especially), write poetry, and am dying to learn to play the acoustic guitar so I can one day serenade my sweetheart. Think of Edwin McCain's song, "I'll Be."
I sound great, don't I? But there is one catch! I'm still a guy! And I drive my woman crazy! Now think of Brad Paisley's song, "I'm still a guy!"
And this is where my understanding of your man comes into play. Some women I have been involved with in the past have expected me not to be a guy!
Like most men, I'm task-oriented, I want to get things done. I don't always want to talk about my feelings or yours or anyone else's! I want money made, the car fixed or washed and my food an hour ago! I can be demanding and obviously, impatient. I'm an A-type personality Alpha Male. I'm expressive. I yell at other drivers on occasion. I'm a strict, but forgiving, disciplinarian with my children. Besides their physical safety and knowing that they are loved, my concern in their character development.
I could be sitting right next to my sweetheart and zone completely out when a special about Ancient Rome comes on the History Channel or when FoxNews is reporting about the damaged Japanese Nuclear Reactor. It doesn't matter how my baby is or how in love with her I am. I still get fascinated by these topics.
Now, this brings me to the crucial part of this blog: unrealistic expectations. This is probably the last thing you wanted to read about, but this is the issue many times ladies. I have experienced this many times myself, especially because I'm a straight male psychic. Most of my callers are female and ladies tend to be more relationship-oriented. So if you want to make things work with your man, please take it from a guy who has been the victim of unrealistic expectations before.
- Understand that your man cannot always talk about his feelings. He might need more time to process them. Forcing him to talk doesn't get you a more 'honest' answer. It makes him resentful for being nagged.
- If your man makes time in his schedule for you, express your appreciation. Life moves fast these days. He might be moving mountains just to spend a few hours with you. Your appreciation will motivate him to want to make more time for you.
- Let him earn money and work. Nothing messes with a man's self-image then not having constructive work or not earning his own way.
- If he has children from a previous marriage/relationship, don't interfere with his devotion to his children. Wanting to be a part of their lives is one thing, but don't place yourself in direct competition with his children. There are very few good fathers out there. We need all the support we can get.
- Don't create rules that he must adhere to, to 'prove' that he loves you. It's manipulative and you wouldn't want him doing that to you. If you need him to do something for you, simply ask him. Tell him how much it means to you and if he's worth anything, he'll move mountains to make you happy.
- Don't challenge his affection with questions like, "Do you even love me?" That is the wrong way to go about getting the reassurance you need. Express your concern about his love if you need to, but challenging him is going to deeply insult him.
- Respect his skill and competence as a man. I realize this is difficult to do in the age political correctness and often militant feminism. But let's face it ladies, you want love and we men have it. Questioning a man too much about his business decisions, his trade or vocation is a mistake. Unless you're in the same business and have more experience then him, he's going to resent it. It's like your telling him, "I don't trust you to provide for me." This about it? Do you want him coming into the kitchen and questioning your cooking skills? Most ladies still pride themselves on being good cooks. You would be offended and tell him to get the heck of your kitchen, right? So have some confidence and respect for your man. He might need to learn from a few mistakes, but that's life, we all do.
If you adhere to these few simple rules, I guarantee your relationship with your sweetie will improve and you will find yourself crying a lot less! If you need to know whether your man really loves you to begin with or how much potential the relationship has, please give me a call. I will be available most of the weekend, except Sunday morning. Trust me, I can crawl right into your man's head and heart.
Remember, "I'm still a guy!";-)