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When you are getting a reading, it is important that you are feeling good about yourself.  You should not have your emotions all over the place.  When I say this, it means, do not be upset, angry, anxious, stressed-out, crying, etc.  Emotions play a huge role when you are getting a reading.  When you are emotional the outcome of your reading may not be what you want to hear.

Something that helps when you are about to get a reading, is to eat a banana an hour before your reading.  The potassium in the banana tends to open you up and act as a conduit.  ** Please do not take this recommendation if you are allergic to bananas. ** 

If you play ‘trick the psychic’ in your eyes, it may work, but you are the one that does not benefit from this.  I was doing a reading for someone and they asked me about their brother.  They asked about his truck.  I saw that he was going to sell his truck and get another vehicle. This person did not respond to what I had said.  Later on, she had written that she tested me, and that I was right about his truck. 

There is no need to be calling a psychic when someone has not contacted you in over 30 days time. If it is longer than that, they are 'ghosting' you. Do not start out with, "How does so and so feel about me? Is there a future with us? If so and so does contact you, then converse and tell them how you feel. Friends should be friends and not someone that disappears on you. Relationships should not be walking on egg shells or being afraid to express yourself. People should be open and honest. When you are open and honest in a reading, it is more successful on the receiving end. When I see mice, then you are telling a partial story. This is not to your advantage and will prove deceit on your end. If I do see mice around a person, I will end the chat. I do not have time for liars by ommission. Doing this will save you a lot of money and a lot of time.

I will not answer something on demand.  For Example:  What does he/she look like?  What color is my car?  What about my love life?  There are certain things that will come to me and if it is the look of a person, look of a car, the color of a house, etc., I will say so. I will ask you to be more specific, if a question is like the above questions or similar.  I.E.: What about my love life? I will most likely ask; Is there someone in your life already that you would like to look at or, are you looking for new love to come in your life. Being specific with any question is beneficial to you. Being 'CLEAR' in your heart, mind and soul is the best way of receiving a reading.

I work best when I just say what I see. I will usually answer all your questions with this process.  Being'OPEN' and 'HONEST'will give you the best benevolent outcome for you in your reading.  As the saying goes, "Honesty is the Best policy.” 

Timing-Astrology can show you when the optimal time to meet someone new will occur. Opportunities for meeting new romantic partners clearly shows in a chart.

Synastry-Astrology shows the strengths and weaknesses between any two people, and how well you will get along. In other words you can recognize a compatible partner.

Karmic partners-Astrology can show if this is a karmic relationship, that is, one you were destined to meet. Which of course does not guarantee compatibility or longevity, in and of itself.

Your own patterns that may need to change-We all have patterns that can become habit. In other words, we have blind spots, that can keep us from attaining true love.

For example, I have a friend with Saturn square Neptune from her 5th house of love that also involved her Moon. After years of watching her hang on to dead relationships, (being an astrologer I wondered) I asked about her parents. They had been in a marriage for 50 years or more and she finally admitted that her Mother (the Moon in her chart) had been unhappy most of her married life, but hung in there for dear life no matter what.

I told her that I thought this contributed to her early conditioning about marriage and love, and that looking at her chart, I felt she associated love with unhappiness and hanging on no matter what, even in relationships where the man was long gone.

A few days later she admitted I was right. With this knowledge she changed her pattern. If a man didn't call back after a certain period of time she began to Move On with a vengeance. I am happy to say she is now in a reciprocal relationship that is going well.

Is he capable of fidelity? This is an important question to most women and one worthy of looking into. While we all have a brain, some men (and women) are capable of monogamy and some are high risk.

What kind of a partner is he looking for? Heads and hearts sometimes clash, but the chart shows what a man (or woman) is looking for and ultimately what kind of partner they will have.

What will the future look like and when do obstacles occur? This is an important question to prepare for the future. Most people who call would rather know what their chances of success are than to be in the dark. Astrology clearly shows the future, and knowledge is always power!

These are just a few of the things astrology can answer regarding love. What does your chart show?

Stopping Old Wounds from Stealing Relationships by Karen Young

Faery Blessings:

So many times I get asked "how come I cannot attract this person or that thing"...again doing my research I ran across this article from heysigmund .com and thought this just might help someone...I know it's long but it's a good read for those wondering "why me"...with that being said, enjoy today's message and Be Blessed!

"Old wounds have many ways of stealing into relationships. They can disrupt a connection, prevent a connection from reaching take-off, or slowly pull at a relationship until it’s gasping for air. Everyone is capable of having a connection that is loving and life-giving – a relationship that allows each person to be completely seen, stripped back to bare, pretenses gone, flaws and vulnerabilities on full show. It’s beautiful, but it’s not easy, because this type connection requires openness and vulnerability. The walls need to fall and the armor needs to soften.

Here’s the dilemma – let go of the armor and risk being hurt, but don’t let go of the armour and the relationship you deserve will struggle to find you.

Armour is the protective wrap we put around ourselves to stop the things that have hurt us before from ever hurting us again. It isn’t a bad thing – we all have it and we all need it – but the tougher and tighter the armour, the harder it is to connect, feel loved, and give love. You might feel the love, deeply and purely, put it just can’t get through the way it needs to.

The deepest wounds often come from childhood. They can affect the way people see the world, themselves and their relationships. They can shape the expectations people have of themselves and others, and what they think they deserve. They can also affect people on a physiological level– the way they hold themselves physically, the way they move, their nervous system, and their brain. But none of this has to be permanent.

Of course, not all wounds come from childhood. Few of us reach adulthood without having had our hearts broken, our ideas about love questioned and our spirits bruised. It’s how we deal with this that will determine the power our history has to keep hurting us. In fact, by providing an opportunity for self-reflection, learning and experimentation, past hurts can be the gateway to stronger relationships – but this does take effort, a willingness to explore and the courage to experiment with a different way of being.

The capacity for that is in all of us. In the same way that with deliberate effort and practice we can expand our physical capabilities, we can also extend well past the self-enforced limits of our emotional edges.

How do I know that an old wound is at play?

When there is chronic fighting in a relationship, it’s likely that old wounds are feeding the battle. The existence and influence of old wounds will often be out of our awareness. We won’t know they’re there, but their effects will be obvious.

Old wounds set to work when something in the present moment triggers old memories that are attached to old hurts. When this happens, we react to the new situation as though it’s an old one.

There are a few ways to tell that an old wound is at play:

The conflict is constant, and always feels the same.
Your emotional reaction to something within the relationship is intense and out of proportion to whatever seemed to cause it.
Your reaction is difficult to shift.

Let’s get practical.

Here are some things that will enrich and enliven any relationship. Try experimenting and see which ones nourish your relationship and deepen your connection.

Love yourself like you would anyone else.

Pay attention to your own needs. Everything you need to find balance and live whole-heartedly is already in you. The clues will come out as feelings, whispers, and thoughts you can’t get rid of. Take notice. It’s your intuition and it knows what you need. Don’t ignore it, push it further down into you or shut it down. If you’re someone who has had plenty of being ignored throughout your life, this is where you get to stand up and give yourself the love you deserve.

Feel your feelings.

If the way you deal with hurt and disappointment is with a stoic pushing down of the feeling, try trusting your capacity to support yourself. The only way to deal with feelings is to feel them. They exist for a good reason and hold information about what you need or the direction you need to take. The more you push them down, the more damage they do – they toughen your armour, harden you and swipe at your capacity to connect. Let the feelings unfold, feel them a bit more than last time, and trust that you’ll be okay – because you will be.

Watch the things you tell yourself in an argument.

Be careful of self-talk that sounds like self-pity, victim talk, defensiveness or anger. Self-talk is the silent, automatic messages that swirl around in your head. It’s powerful and shapes the way you relate to the world. When you listen to the messages, you might be surprised by the tone and the words. The way you talk to yourself will leak into the way you are with the people close to you. Your self-talk might need some redirecting. This will mean being clear and strong with yourself sometimes, and comforting and tender at other times.

Your vulnerabilities are beautiful. Don’t hide them.

There are parts of all of us that are so soft, tender and raw that the temptation is to hide them away for protection. They’re the things you think about at 2am, the feelings you feel that nobody knows about, your insecurities, your fears. They’re the fragile parts of you and it would make sense to hide them if you were in a harsh or unsupportive environment but now you’re in a different one. Let your partner see them – don’t cover them with anger, denial or pretence. This might feel risky and you might feel as though it’s easier and safer to keep your frayed edges protected, wrapped up and tucked away where nobody can see, but trust that whatever happens you can support yourself, vulnerabilities and all. You’re not the same person you were all those years ago. Open up, little by little. It doesn’t have to all be about self-disclosure. It might be in the way you relate, the way you touch, the loving words you offer, the softening of yourself around someone. It’s about being vulnerable, because you can’t have intimacy without it.

Stay with the tough stuff.

What do you do when the conversation gets hard? Do you flare up? Shut down? Walk away? Stay? The temptation might be for fight or flight, and it’s likely that you’ll have a favourite. It’s also likely that neither are a great option. Try slowing things down so you can respond more deliberately and be less barrelled by automatic responses and old memories that happen out of your awareness. Avoiding difficult conversations has a way of driving distance between people. When one of you disengages, the other will soon follow. When this happens, issues will keep their heat and turn the solid foundation of your relationship to mud. If you feel yourself getting flighty, try grounding yourself. Feel your feet on the floor, your back, your legs. Slow your breathing and remember that they are just feelings. They’ll come, and then they’ll go. When the temptation is to disengage, focus on your partner and remember why it’s important that you stay.

Widen the space between what happens, and how you respond.

We all get into habitual ways of responding in relationships. They happen instantly and without conscious thought. Slow down the process. Breathe so you can give yourself time and widen the space between what happens or what is said, and your response. Then, when you’re ready, speak clearly, openly, and without blame or judgement. That doesn’t mean you can’t point out the problems, but do it from a position of strength, grace and love, not righteousness. Consider what you can do – or stop doing – to make it easier for the other person to give you what you need. The more open and emotionally generous you can be, the more the other person will have permission to do the same.

Use the forgive button. A lot.

All relationships will come into conflict now and then. When you’re with someone who loves you, there will be a ton of power that comes from being hurt. Use it wisely. We all get it wrong sometimes and we all do stupid things that hurt the people we love. When you’re the one who has been hurt, acknowledge it, discuss it, feel hurt or angry, but don’t use your hurt or anger as a way to keep the power or control in the relationship. Use it to feed a conversation and to find a better way to do things, but don’t use your hurt or anger to lift you to the saddle of your high horse. It can be pretty cold and lonely up there. That doesn’t mean you have to accept every bit of nonsense going around – you don’t. What it means is that not holding out on a resolution or fight dirty because of a sense of entitlement or ‘rightness’. The silent treatment, getting personal or nasty, or fiercely claiming victim status might feel good at the time, but it will sink your relationship in the long run. Righteous people can be hard work – you don’t want to be one of those.

Let go of ‘perfection’. It’s weighing you down.

We humans can be pretty great to be around, but we’re far from perfect. The problem with perfection is that it overlooks the sobering fact that you can’t be perfect at everything. When you’re striving for perfection in one area, another area will suffer. It’s just the way it is. When you put the expectations of perfection onto your relationship or your partner, it’s going to cause trouble. If you’re reading this and you’re thinking something like, ‘I don’t get it. There’s nothing wrong with wanting things to be perfect,’ or ‘I’m not righteous, it’s just that I’m pretty much always right, but that’s not my fault,’ explore how your need to be perfect or right might be affecting your relationship, then loosen the hold and open up to enjoying your forgiving, fun, honest, imperfect relationship.

Say what is true.

Speak with an open heart. This doesn’t mean attacking, blaming, judging or criticizing in the name of honesty. Attack is attack and criticism is criticism, however you dress them up. The phrase, ‘just being honest’ is too often used as a poor disguise for ‘just being mean’. Speaking with an open heart means talking about how you feel. It’s letting yourself be seen in a way that makes it easy for others to respond and give you what you need. This will mean going deeper into what you’re feeling and finding the truth behind it. If you’re angry, what’s the feeling underneath it? What are the words? Anger never exists on its own and there’s always something – sadness, insecurity, fear, guilt, jealousy. If you feel the need to shut down or close up, what’s behind that? What are you scared will happen if you stay open? Avoiding an issue doesn’t make it any less true. It just gives it the power to hurt you from the dark.

Don’t leave the loving up to someone else.

When you don’t love yourself enough, your guard will either be too far up or not up far enough. Anyone will do or nobody will do – and that’s a lonely way to live. Don’t be the bully that judges, shames or criticises you. Chances are you’ve had enough of that already. The monster is well fed – don’t feed it any more.

Be fully wherever you are.

Listen with your heart and your full body. People will open up and be more ready to connect when they feel heard and seen. Too often in conversation, we’re not fully there. Instead, we’re distracted by other things or by thinking about how we’ll respond. Feel what’s being said rather than listening to it. When your partner is talking notice how you hold your body. Are you open? Attentive? Available? What about your face? Is it hard? Warm? Tender? Are you thinking about your response or are you listening to what’s being said?

Your wounds don’t have to wound you anymore.

Your wounds don’t have to wound you anymore. They’re the proof of your resilience, your strength and your courage and now they can work hard for you. First though, you’ll have to shine the light on them. Don’t keep them in the dark, otherwise you won’t see them coming when they crash into you. When you have an emotional reaction to your partner, what does this remind you of? What is your earliest memory of these feelings? You might need to sit with them for a while to let them speak to you. What about your partner? Who does he or she remind you of? Then – how are they different? Focusing on the differences will help you to stop seeing your partner or your relationship through an old filter.

And finally …

It’s important to remember that when trying anything new, it will feel awkward for a while and the temptation will be to run back to what’s familiar. Be aware of this and move back into your safety zone if you want to, but remember the reasons you wanted to move out of it and let it be a temporary refuge, not a permanent address.

It’s easy to accept that the way you feel and the things you believe are normal – they may be, but that doesn’t mean they’re working for you. There is always the possibility for a new kind of normal. One that is richer, more open, more loving and more connected. The shift might not be a quick one, but with courage and the readiness to experiment with the world and your relationships, it’s always possible to find a new way to be – one that feels more whole-hearted and vital."

Gods Grace, Peace, Mercy, Love & Abundance Be Upon All Your Days I Pray!
Faery Sprinkles
Lavonda`

When you are getting a reading, it is important that you are feeling good about yourself.  You should not have your emotions all over the place.  When I say this, it means, do not be upset, angry, anxious, stressed-out, crying, etc.  Emotions play a huge role when you are getting a reading.  When you are emotional the outcome of your reading may not be what you want to hear.

Something that helps when you are about to get a reading, is to eat a banana an hour before your reading.  The potassium in the banana tends to open you up and act as a conduit.  ** Please do not take this recommendation if you are allergic to bananas. ** 

If you play ‘trick the psychic’ in your eyes, it may work, but you are the one that does not benefit from this.  I was doing a reading for someone and they asked me about their brother.  They asked about his truck.  I saw that he was going to sell his truck and get another vehicle. This person did not respond to what I had said.  Later on, she had written that she tested me, and that I was right about his truck. 

There is no need to be calling a psychic when someone has not contacted you in over 30 days time. If it is longer than that, they are 'ghosting' you. Do not start out with, "How does so and so feel about me? Is there a future with us? If so and so does contact you, then converse and tell them how you feel. Friends should be friends and not someone that disappears on you. Relationships should not be walking on egg shells or being afraid to express yourself. People should be open and honest. When you are open and honest in a reading, it is more successful on the receiving end. When I see mice, then you are telling a partial story. This is not to your advantage and will prove deceit on your end. If I do see mice around a person, I will end the chat. I do not have time for liars by ommission. Doing this will save you a lot of money and a lot of time.

I will not answer something on demand.  For Example:  What does he/she look like?  What color is my car?  What about my love life?  There are certain things that will come to me and if it is the look of a person, look of a car, the color of a house, etc., I will say so. I will ask you to be more specific, if a question is like the above questions or similar.  I.E.: What about my love life? I will most likely ask; Is there someone in your life already that you would like to look at or, are you looking for new love to come in your life. Being specific with any question is beneficial to you. Being 'CLEAR' in your heart, mind and soul is the best way of receiving a reading.

I work best when I just say what I see. I will usually answer all your questions with this process.  Being'OPEN' and 'HONEST'will give you the best benevolent outcome for you in your reading.  As the saying goes, "Honesty is the Best policy.” 

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I remember the day I figured out other kids did not live in the same inner world I lived in. For a brief time as a teenager I rode the bus to school, and I recall waiting for the bus to arrive one day when I realized many of the unusual things that happened to me, did not happen to my friends.

It would be many years before I could put all of these experiences together and put things into perspective, and many more years and study of various metaphysical disciplines, (especially the mid to late 70's and 1980's-90's) that included astrology, before I realized I was meant to use these gifts. One such experience was the visitation of my Great Grandparents.

We spent hours that turned into several days playing. They never seemed to actually talk, but the communication flowed and I never thought a thing about it. They wanted to know everything about my life, and I remember being extremely happy with them.

I even remember them sitting at the dinner table with the rest of the family. Then we would go back to my room to play some more. I actually thought they were interacting with other family members as well, even though I never saw any evidence of it. They seemed totally focused on me. It seemed like a natural occurrence.

After several days I became aware they were going to leave. I walked into the kitchen where they were standing on that Saturday morning, hating the fact they were leaving. No one else in the house was up.

"But when will you come back?" I asked. As they sadly smiled at me, I knew instinctively and beyond a shadow of a doubt they would never return. There was no physical answer, and they looked sad and more somber than ever.

Life went on, and I always remembered my meeting with my Great-Grandparents. I was always busy and they were seldom discussed. As I got older I knew they had passed, but still remembered my meeting and told no one.

Fast forward about three and a half decades later to 1998. My Mother was dying of cancer and on her deathbed. We discussed many things that spring that I knew would have to last a lifetime. One day the subject of my Great grandparents came up. "I met them,' I finally stated. "That's impossible," my Mother said, pointing to a nightstand drawer. "They died a generation before you were born."

I opened the drawer and there was a picture of my Grandparents Stone. She was dressed in the same long dark dress as she wore the day she visited me. He was sitting behind a desk in a suit and hat, the same as he wore when I saw him as a child.

I took a deep breath and told her the story of how I had met them both more than a decade after their deaths. I treasure the picture my Mother pulled from her nightstand that day.

What I can tell you is that we are always surrounded by those who love and watch over us from the other side. Some of them never even lived in our lifetimes. They are always there watching over us.

I am not a professional medium like some of the others on this site, but occasionally I do get a message. If I do I will pass it on, but I don't 'channel on command,' so to speak.

I can also tell you that our loved ones' astrological charts go on. I know this to be true from firsthand experience. I can't presume to tell you where they are and what their experience is like, but the (astrology) charts don't end because they have left the earthly plane. And the most amazing thing in charts of the deceased I can see is us. Past, present and future, we still show up in the charts of a deceased loved one, as do major events in our lives.

And if that's not amazing, I don't know what is! Love never dies. Death my separate us physically, but there is nothing so powerful that it can destroy the love that exists between those of us who have gone on. Love is truly eternal.

Simply put, this is the Universe, Source energy, higher self, however you feel to express it, letting you know it is of utmost importance you be in just as much of a hurry and hold just as much of a sense of urgency to be in touch with, love, and know all the parts of yourself you are trying to share, relate, or explain to this other person. Any desperation for companionship will be negated and chopped off at the gate if you are trying too hard to love or be loved by this other person when you are still in dire need of loving yourself from yourself.

To rush for a result and bypass all the lessons and growth for a quick sense of security, to say you want it to be every way you want it and right now in desperation, will only show where you are out of touch with yourself. Rushing for a result for a sense of contentment will only bring frustration.

When you are truly connecting with another at soul level, it's no quick feat or quick sense of finality or solidity. It is an ever unfolding journey. There are no short cuts when it is truly that meaningful.

For those who are just floating by casually "hooking up" yes, it can be "easier." However, these are usually not the caliber of those who energetically connect with me. Theirs is a higher purpose to the connection than anything traditional.

Much love! Stay empowered!