Many I know have never had a Psychic reading before-and may feel afraid or apprehensive on a first call.
Here are a list of things that may
help you prior to calling for a reading:
help you prior to calling for a reading:
RELAX-don't be afraid of calling a Psychic for advice! Most all Readers wish to help you and try to make you feel comfortable and at ease.
Try to prepare a LIST of questions. Think about what you TRULY want to know-and also taking notes in the reading is something you can and should do! The key thing in getting the MOST out of ANY Reading-is to LISTEN to what is being said-without interrupting if possible. Most ALL Readers give their reading quickly-but also DO allow you time to ask questions in reference to what was said OR to be sure you understand the reading.
Make sure you are not in a rush-allow at least 8-10 minutes for a decent reading to get the most information possible. "Two or three minutes readings" do NOT help you get the most important detailed information. Tarot readings DO take 8-10 minutes-and should NOT be interrupted every other card(which IS rude!*); ask your questions AFTER the card reading is done. Most Readers will also send you INFO 'IF" it pertains to your reading! Most Readers DO want to get out the MOST info for your BUCK-so be patient during a reading. Call when you have 'time' and not rushing out the door or calling in the middle of a traffic jam!
Remember every Readers 'technique' is different! If you want to know 'how' Readers 'do readings'--ASK-don't 'assume'. I prefer to use my INTUITION, sometimes I DO ask for birthdates (but not ALWAYS*)and if time is allowed I sometimes MAY work with whatever Tarot reveals also IF time allows. I DEPEND on my own intuition-so KNOW that I do NOT base readings on 'birthdates or cards'. Dates and timeframes given in my readings do NOT come from 'tools' or birthdates--ONLY whatever Spirit has revealed to me. Please do not DEMAND "NAMES"--IF they are picked up they just come-but without having someone 'demand them'. Spirit just does NOT work that way in ANY reading. I am an honest Reader and tell it like it 'is'! I don't have time to waste-neither do you!
NEVER try to argue with any Reader. Believe me-most do NOT go there-not necessary and a total waste of YOUR time and ours. I won't get into 'that' and most don't!
Always remember "NOTHING" is written in stone in any given reading! Things CAN change especially in RELATIONSHIP READINGS--due to we ALL have "FREE WILL"--meaning to choose what we want AND others as well. Relationship readings are never 'simple' as men and women both have free will to choose with WHOM they wish to be with. That includes even marital situations-but regardless-relationships with PEOPLE are subject to change depending on THEIR choices-not only yours!
Try to remain calm and courteous and LISTEN to the Reading-EVEN if you disagree or do not like it! You're always welcomed to leave comments on my Readings-I only ask if you are NOT happy-you'll drop emails to tell me why! Believe me-GOOD Feedback I truly appreciate! As for 'bad Feedback'--if you don't like a reading-just be SURE you state a CALM and VALID reason WHY-without rambling ON and ON with how lousy the "Reader is"! That is NOT nice nor is it 'professional' on the end of the Sender. Just KNOW-that KARMA does return-whether it be 'good OR bad'. IF you try to make ANY Reader look like a fumbling 'idiot' by degrading them and spewing written negative words (untrue or false*)--just KNOW that the INTENTIONS (of the heart/mind*) you put out-RETURN to you-it's a Universal Law-in all cultures/beliefs. Remember this IS sole income for MOST Readers-so YES your comments AND your words are ALWAYS important! Think about how you would want negative criticism voiced PUBLICLY ABOUT YOUR JOB in front of others-probably VERY carefully. IF you want to READ Feedback-by all means DO SO--but be SURE to read 3 Pages or MORE to get a REAL feel about them-AND also remember-YOU can always judge for yourself by CALLING any READER! We ALL know bad Feedback is there someplace--we don't hide from it--you shouldn't run from a Reader because OF it! It is a competitive field for those ARE Readers-so decide for yourself!
Know most readers want to treat EVERY CLIENT with RESPECT and COURTESY! BUT this is a two way street--be sure you're not yelling or angry when calling for a reading. That is NOT the time to call-wait until you have calmed down! When we're all 'upset'-we really do not LISTEN to what anyone says. It is NOT the 'right time to call' IF you are angry enough to go outside and kick the dog! Remember-NO Reader wants to get yelled at or cussed out--do YOU when you are working? Nobody deserves ABUSE when working at any place-and the average person refuses to take it-would YOU? If you cuss and scream-don't be surprised at being 'blocked' from further sessions by ANY Reader!
Ask yourself "Why do I want this reading"? If you have nobody to give you 'outside' HONESTY about your situation or 'unbiased opinions' from friends and/or family-a reading CAN help you get a fresh perspective your concerns. If you're in fear of someone-you can call-but personally I tell anyone who is in 'fear for themselves or children'-CALL THE PROPER AUTHORITIES! Emergencies are best up to those who can DO something about them--especially in life/death situations.
DO read EVERY WORD on a READERS AD!! Many call me and never take time to find out HOW I work/why I do what I "DO"--or bother to look at all? Readers ads DO contain IMPORTANT INFORMATION ON THEM! Just don't go jumping to conclusions from a photo OR a headline-READ THE ADS! You'll find out WHAT services the Reader offers/what kind of readings to expect. Medical (YES that includes DEATH!*), Legal, Lottery AND Pregnancy questions are not my forte; also NOTE-MEDICAL AND LEGAL READINGS ARE against KEEN POLICY!
KNOW that you've found the RIGHT READER--if you feel a connection in YOUR spirit and gut! THAT will be your best CLUE of 'is this the Reader for ME"? IF what they say does reflect back peace and enlightenment to you and your question-you've find the right one for YOU! Also-give the Reader at least 2 calls minimum--in order to make a connection to them-and establish a relationship with 'your Reader'!
Just remember---ALL Readers ARE DIFFERENT--no TWO are ALIKE! ALSO-there is NO 100% PERFECT READER. God knows IF there were-we'd ALL be out of work! *S*
Be kind if you are SWITCHING READERS--and try not to compare 'what he said/she said' to the PRESENT Reader (THAT alone wastes YOUR TIME!*) AND it 'not fair' to ANY Reader! Simply ask your questions and be willing to HEAR a 'new viewpoint! It doe NOT matter who you called prior--it matters what the READER you are calling SAYS TO YOU!
Last but not least--remember YOU have choices to make in LIFE--YOUR OWN. Readers are here to HELP give guidance and point you TO fresh perspectives about a situation or choices you may face? We CAN'T MAKE DECISIONS FOR YOU! I personally do NOT encourage what is referred to as PSYCHIC ADDICTION" This means every little thing-CALL THE READER-"She can tell me 'what to do'! There comes a time in everyones life we ALL have to learn take charge of our OWN LIVES and making CHOICES! ANY "GOOD READER" not only tells you the 'TRUTH'-they also know when it's time to let you stop taking only 'baby steps' about facing Life Decisions. We become aware when it is time to allow you to WALK your own Path in Life on your own knowing you're in CHARGE of your own destiny because you are READY to trust yourself AND Spirit on your Journey! *S*
These are some of my personal viewpoints on Readings.
NEVER be afraid to call a READER!
New Callers are always welcomed.
I try to provide fast and friendly service
and take it as an honor and privilege to serve you!
Comments and Posts are welcomed.
NEVER be afraid to call a READER!
New Callers are always welcomed.
I try to provide fast and friendly service
and take it as an honor and privilege to serve you!
Comments and Posts are welcomed.