By Popular Demand My Original Post To Help Women Understand Relationships With Men. I have decided to write a few articles about how men think and act differently than women when it comes to romance and relationships in general.
I have been reading for over 30 years, many of my readings are about romance and I find that it is harder for women to sometimes understand the thought process men have when it comes to relationships and romance.
My clients gave the the moniker "The Romance Psychic" many years ago and I think that I read so well on this subject because not only can I pick up the thoughts and feelings of the men that I am asked about, but since I am a male clairvoyant I can interpret them with a unique male point of view which allows me to help my family of clients much better. It is one thing to read a man's thoughts and feelings but it is another to explain them to a women so that she can use that information to make small changes that will improve the relationship and put them on the right path. So this will be Post #1 on Men think differently than women. I hope you enjoy what you read and use it to help you and your relationship. I also hope that you take the time one day if you have not yet had a reading with me to do so. You will be amazed at the difference in my readings versus other psychic's and advisor's.
PART #1 HOW OFTEN MEN THINK ABOUT ROMANCE
I figure this is the best place to start. The first thing to understand is that while women may think about the relationship they are in, or the man they are interested in quite often, usually most of the time they are not thinking about the everyday things that they need to in order to run their lives. Men on the other hand when they are not working or doing the things they need to in their life think about things such as what they are going to eat for dinner, what they are going to watch on television, or what sporting event they are interested in.
This is not to say that men do not think about the women in their life but they do not focus on it in the way women tend to. They overlook and take for granted how the women that they sometimes really care about feels about them.
When a man knows a women cares about him he tends to just file that away and lodges that deep in his mind. He knows, he is content, he does not have to hear it or have it expressed daily or as often as women may need. This is a big mistake a man makes but it does not mean that he does not care. He just is not that worried. Men think a moment at a time, they focus on what is there now not so much on what is to come next. They live, act, and think in the moment.
One of the most important things I tell many of my clients is to "Enjoy The Moments". In other words, try not to worry about what is going to happen next, will he call the next day and when, will this lead to something more.
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It is a shame to waste the time when you are with someone you care about and not fully enjoy being with them when in the back of your mind you are running movies as I call them. thinking about what will happen next is ok but not at the same time you are with that person. You should enjoy every single moment, every single action, and every single word that is spoken at that time.
That is what men do.
Unfortunately many men just do not understand that the women they care about sometimes needs to hear that they are loved or cared about more than just once in a while. But trust me when I say that men do care they just do not express the feelings they have verbally as much as women may do or want their men to do. Men tend to express the way they feel in different ways, that will be a topic for another post. For now it is just important to just realize that they know how you feel about them, they lock that into their minds and they go on and just accept that. When they are with you they know, and sometimes it is nice to hear from them how they feel and I can show you ways to get more of that from them, but it does not mean that they do not care about you.
It is also important to realize that everyone carries things from past relationships into new ones and in many cases this can be a bad thing. I find that both men and women do this but women tend to take an action by a new man and overlay it on an action or lack of action that happened to them in a past relationship and then form an opinion on the new man based on old thoughts and feelings or something that happened in the past with another. Continue reading Below My Special And My Warning. I can Help You In So Many Ways
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Do not let this get you in trouble and cause speed bumps in the relationship you are in now. Men tend not to do this as much as women, although men do this as well. Basically on those days where you are thinking about your man and how much you want to be with him, he is thinking about whether he is going to eat pizza or steak, what he is going to watch on television or other mundane random thoughts then he thinks about you and how much he enjoys being with you. It comes second or third instead of first, but that in no way means he thinks of you as a lesser thing than for example food. It is just the amount of time he spends on thinking about romance
With all this said let me also add this disclaimer. Every situation, every man, every women, every romance or relationship is different. That is why so many people call me so that I can tell them what the other person is feeling and thinking about them, this way you will know and not get frustrated because your man isn't telling you or showing you how he feels as much as he should or you may want him too. I hope some of this helps, that is why I read on keen to help people, and over the next few days I will post more on this subject.
If you take anything away from this it should be to enjoy the time you have when you are with your man, remember he is a man and less emotional when it comes to relationships or romance, this is natural and has no reflection on you whatsoever. There are many ways to change this and to get your man to be more expressive of his feelings and I can help you obtain that as well as many other things in your life. But alway remember that each man is his own man and not the guy you were with last time or the time before.
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This post contains several of my popular articles about saving your relationship, getting it back on track, getting more communication from your man and how to enjoy the moments and take the pressure off you and the person you love. I am a male psychic and have been reading for over 30 years. The information in this post can help you with so many situations and problems that you will be amazed. It comes from myself PsychicAndrew and includes not only psychic and spiritual information but a male psychic's point of view and a man's perspective of many subjects. If after reading this you find that many things have hit a bulls eye about your own particular issue then take a moment and think about allowing me to give you a real reading. My reviews are amazing, I am 100% honest and my male point of view could be just what you need. So under my photo and name please begin reading. This is going to change your life and your relationship or romance for the better.
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Analyze your relationship now. This is what to look at. This will help you save things
Some of the things you want to take stock of are as follows. First and foremost is the communication between you and your partner. Is he communicating more to you. In other words is he starting to share his feelings and thoughts more with you, is he telling you how he feels about certain things in the relationship and is he talking at all. If he has become less communicative then you may have a problem. This problem can be fixed by making some changes so do not panic. Depending on what he is thinking and feeling you and your advisor can come up with a plan that modifies a few things that you do and a few ways you may act to get him communicating more.
The second thing you want to look at is the time he spends with you. I am not talking about telephone time or chat time, I am talking about real time such as dates, dinners, and events. You want to take a look and notice if they have declined or increased but you also want to look at the quality of the time you spend together. If this has decreased or become a lesser quality time then this needs to be addressed, but again don’t panic this can also be fixed.
The third thing you want to look at is progress, this is how the relationship has grown and is the framework being built for a longer better and more permanent relationship. This is something that you have to be very careful about and not jump to conclusions regarding framework. Men need time, they run at a slower pace relationship wise than women and this is a very big issue with many of my clients. They get freaked out if things do not seem to be moving toward name branding such as what the man refers to you as such as girlfriend, or other half and so on and so forth. This is not as important as many of my clients think it is. Just because the name branding is not there does not mean that his feelings are not there and absolutely does not mean that your relationship is not improving or growing. It is something to look at but in many cases not something you need to get super worked up about.
The point I want to make is this. I get many calls from clients who wait until things are completely broken or they have broken up with their man, or are in a huge fight that will eventually lead to a breakup. Sometimes things can be put back together but in many cases it is too late and I am very honest, if I feel it is over and cant be fixed I will tell you this so you can ,move on and start healing.
It is much easier for me to help you fix something before it is going to happen. By reading his thoughts and feelings, reading and analyzing the situation before a problem I can give you predictions and advice that will keep the bad from happening. I so wish clients would call me before something happens, when they start to feel something is wrong or going in the other direction. When you call me first then I can help you with a huge success rate. I will be able to tell you why he is acting a certain way and how he is feelings and thinking about you and then tell you what you must do to get things back on track and keep your relationship from exploding and in most cases I can help you to make the relationship better and improve the pace of the relationship or romance.
So do yourself a favor and take stock in your relationship from time to time and if something is off, or feels not right, call me before the big bang not after. Being a great psychic and a man myself can really give you the information and help that you need or eventually will need. Better safe than sorry, better sooner than later.
**All relationships are different. This does not mean you are not already doing this many of you are. I just wanted to remind all my clients about this because I am getting more and more calls that I wish called me before the problems became unmanageable or un-fixable. You would be surprised how much I can help. So take stock in your relationship now and remember that it is always worth the cost of a call to save the most important thing in your life.
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ENOY THE MOMENT AND REMEMBER THE GLASS IS HALF FULL
Many times while you are allowing time the chance to make things better or to allow circumstances to change you find yourself thinking about what comes next, what will happen, will things workout and when.
Will we be together always, when will he come closer, communicate more, lose that “other Person” in his life holding him from you, when will his finances get better, when will he move closer to me. All those things that can be holding back your relationship and so many other things that only time can fix get caught up in your brain and you start making those movies I talk about allot. You start thinking about it not working or things not going well, in other words your always looking at the glass as being half empty rather than half full.
Those movies that we make up in our head need to be positive movies with good endings. Not negative movies with bad endings. What we think and those movies we make can and will change what is ahead of us. It is so simple but the truth is that when you focus on positive thoughts you get positive results, when you focus on negative thoughts you get negative results. We will talk more about focusing later but for now back to enjoying the moments.
Your in a relationship, what part of the relationship for now is not important. It could be the start of a new one, the middle of one, the fresh start of an old relationship gone bad, it does not really matter when it comes to this subject. Time is not infinite for us, every day you waste is a day lost. When you are with your special man or women it is important to savor that moment, to enjoy the time that you are together, the time you spend talking or communicating, the time you both share together. So many times you will find yourself with the person you care about but all you are doing is thinking about what will happen after, what will come next, what change will this meeting bring.
This is such a waste and in so many cases it is destructive as well especially if you are thinking negatively. You need to at those moments just not think. You need to embrace the moment in a positive manner, enjoy the time you are together, savor the sounds of his voice. Do not worry if you are going to see him the next day, speak to him tomorrow, or even worry if this will be the last time you do see him or her. Don’t think about what the time together is going to do for the relationship, enjoy that time now.
I mean really enjoy it. Notice the small things, the positive things and actions. If you feel something negative or feel something is off please ignore those feelings at least for now. When you are with the other person, you want to immerse yourself in that point in time. You want to covet that time you spend as if it was the last time you will be together but in a good way, not the bad way where all you can do is think about whether it will be or not. So much great time together and amazing fun, love, and feelings can be lost because we are not thinking and living in the moment we are preoccupied thinking about things that are not in our control, or things that are but should be dealt with at a different time. When you are together all you should be doing is enjoying yourself, realizing the entire time all the great things you feel about that person and never start thinking about the things you want to change, or the things that are not perfect yet.
Nobody is perfect ever. That is a fact, worrying about things does not help. That is a fact, but that great feeling you have when you are with him is real and that too is a fact.
The most important fact, is that when you are with the person you want to be with you should make that moment the most important time in your life. Live in that moment, enjoy the conversation, the touch of his hand in yours, the way he makes you laugh, the feelings that rush through your body, everything that makes up the reason you want to be with this person in the first place.
Why waste that time, why not enjoy it, why would you want to take even one minute of happiness away from yourself. There are times to fix things, there are times to change things and focus on what needs to change in a relationship but those time are not when you are with that person or enjoying that person.
If you just relax and enjoy the time you are together without thinking negatively about "stuff", without wondering what will happen or what comes the next day then you have accomplished many things.
The first thing you have accomplished and the best thing is that you enjoyed him or her at the highest level possible. You had fun, you felt great, you laughed, you shared, you got the most from that person and that moment. The second thing that you accomplished was creating all those positive feelings that lead to better times ahead. The third thing you have accomplished is the remembrance of the great time you had when you were together so you can use those memories to create positive movies later that will lead to good endings and great changes. It is a win win situation. It also insures that while you are spending that time together that you are not fighting, disagreeing, or creating negative feelings that will cause problems. It is easy I assure you. We really want to enjoy the moments, so now just do that. Throw the thoughts about your relationship away for now and just "Enjoy the moment."
So now that you have read this please put this to good use. The next time you are with your man or women, the next time you communicate, make it glorious. and do yourself the favor, you will not regret this ever I promise. It may sound simple, because it is, but when you put it to use you will find that enjoying the moment changes things without even trying.
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Should you really be waiting for him to call you or should you call him
THE MYTH ABOUT CALLING YOUR MAN FIRST
I have heard from many of my female clients that they have either heard from friends or other advisors that it is always best to wait for your man to call you, that after a fight or disagreement, or after a date even.
I have been told that so many times that I felt the need to write this so that not only can you understand the myth but understand this whole who calls who mystery from a male point of view.
Before I begin I want to make it clear that there are many instances when you must go silent. This should not be confused with waiting for him to call. There are times when you cant call because a man may feel threatened or a man may feel to pressured or overwhelmed by your call but these times are not what I am talking about.
I’m talking about that theory or advice given so many times that says he needs to come toward you, or that he needs to make the first move. Most of this is about footing, who has the upper hand in the relationship, who bends first. This is absolutely ridiculous. This in most cases, not all the exact opposite of what you should be doing. Men do not always realize that you have feelings for them despite things you have said or done it is important to build them up, to reassure them that you do like them and one of the bestways to do this is by calling them.
There are times as I mentioned before when you may not want to call them, but this is usually for different reasons, long term goals, and each and every situation is different from another. I am speaking of that general information and thought that many females have especially advisors that you want to wait for the man to call you first and as a general rule this causes more problem for relationships than anything else.
You need to think about your man thinking the same thing as you, thinking that you might not really have the level of feelings you do and he sits and waits for your call. Sometimes when following the rule of not calling first you destroy any and all hope of ever speaking with him again. Now I realize that sometimes you don’t want to call because you don’t want to be rejected again, or feel that your going to get a negative response and this I can understand but think for a moment, if you have not spoken to your man in a few days and it seems as though he is not going to call you then what in the world do you have to lose by calling him. He is already not with you, he has all ready went silent so what is the worst that can happen, you can put yourself in the same situation your in now, no contact. But and this is the big part of this information, if you do take the plunge and make that call you might and will in many cases be very surprised at the response you get and the truth is you have everything to gain and nothing to lose.
Here is the part that I am very compelled to explain. Every situation is different, every reading, every man, every relationship so before you decide what to do I suggest you give me a call or another psychic and maybe not a female psychic if you have been getting the don’t call him advice from her. I cant say that it is not the right move to wait but I can say for the most part that you need to think very hard about not calling. It is not an automatic thing. You must consult your advisor and ask why shouldn’t I call. Sometimes you don’t call because it is part of a long term plan to get your man back or your relationship going again but I just keep hearing too many of my new clients and some of my existing family of clients saying that they feel that he should make the first move and I tell you this as an advisor and a man this is not always the path to go so make sure you feel that not calling him has a real reason behind it and your not just playing a game that you are not understanding completely.
Men think, act, and respond so much differently than women do and that is one of the reasons that I belive that everyone who consults an advisor should consult a male advisor at least once to get the male opinion, the feeling from your man interpreted by a man and see the real difference between readings. My main point here is that I know that throughout many years I have always heard the wait for him to call you after your date, or a fight, or a trip he took, or in many other circumstances. Don’t feel that not making that call first is a standard response. It can hurt your relationship more that help it. If you are unsure of this or what you should really do then please take 5 minutes and allow me to read for you and allow me to give you the male point of view after reading him and the situation. Yes maybe you should be waiting for him to call, but the truth is most of the time you should not be waiting, not if you really want that man that makes your heart sing. Love and Light PsychicAndrew
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My clients refer to me as “The Romance Psychic” because I do more than just answer your questions and predict where things are headed I also provide the most important part of a reading, and those are solutions, I can help you get that special person back into your life, help you keep him there, and show you how to manifest the love from him, and the happiness from you, that you truly desire, and deserve.
In most of my relationship readings I have found that it is just a matter of understanding the other person and his thoughts. Being a male psychic helps me in that area because I believe I can interpret what a man is feeling or thinking much better than many femaadvisor'sors.
Men and women do speak different languages, we also think and feel differently about things as well. This is so overlooked at times. This leads to problems that don't really exist and negative "movies" that play in your head over and over. These negative "movies" manifest negative results and they are most of the time for no reason at all other than a lack of understanding about what is really going on.
So many relationship problems are caused because of this lack of understanding of how the other person is thinking or feeling and the communication necessary to make things work. That’s where I come in, Your 4th Generation -5 Star - Male Romance Psychic with over 30 years of experience. Read My Reviews ThTelllll All, But Back To The Important Stuff
It is so important for you to know the basics. First and foremost you need to know if that person has feelings for you and the level of those feelings, you need to know what he is thinking and feeling about you, and the relationship, and you need to know now.
You need to understand and solve these issues now before precious time is wasted. You need to know why he is sometimes scared, worried, or hesitant, why he has stopped or slowed his communications with you, why he feels to you like he is backing away, and if there are any "Outside Influences" that are in the way of you and your man.
I can answer those questions and many more like them with amazing accuracy and 100% honesty. Once you know the answers to your questions and understand them and now understand him better, I can then tell you what the future holds on your current path and then offer you many solutions based on his thoughts and feelings and actions so you may alter that path if needed. Answers and predictions are important and I am very good at them,, but solutions solve the problems and allow you to obtain what you really are looking for, at that is not always just a person, that is and always will be true happiness for yourself.
You see I am more than just an Advisor and Psychic. I am Your Advisor and Psychic, and each reading, client, circumstance and relationship is different. I am 100% honest in all my readings so if you are looking for someone to just tell you what you want to hear then I may not be for you. If your looking for the truth and if possible solutions to make things better, bring him closer, reestablish contact, or to confirm what you think you already know then I am the one you should be calling.
If you feel that other person in your heart, in your soul, and you just can't get that feeling of him out of your mind then there is usually a strong connection between you both and it’s usually just a matter of understanding how he is operating, feeling, and thinking, then by just adjusting a few things you will allow yourself to obtain a great relationship and the all important "true happiness".
My help will start with your first call to me, but it does not end there . I ask all my family of clients to please email me as much as they want so that they can keep me in the loop and allow me to continue helping them and providing solutions to aspeed bumpsmps or other problems that always pop up. Remember nobody is perfect. I never charge for emails or email questions from my clients. Sometimes things need to be done in steps and I am here for you always. My clients are my family, I read on keen and only keen to help people. Please allow me the opportunity to help you today.
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