THE EMOTIONAL FEMALE

THE EMOTIONAL FEMALE

People have been divided into four types.  The emotional female, the emotional male, the mental male and the mental female.  We are going to begin this ciscussion with the first type.......the emotional female.

The emotional female, in general is a very loving person.  She usually dresses  well with frilly lacey colorful clothes.  She most likely will have long or to the shoulder hair.  She probably will like jewelry.  She loves make up.  Nice shoes could be a part of her wardrobe.  Nails may be nicely done.  She usually looks good and ready for the red carpet.

This gal loves the home.  She loves children and small furry creatures.  She is sweet.

She dreams of romance and a big wedding with all the trimmings.

Love is all important.  There is very little thought of more logical situations...like career choices that pay well, paying the mortgage, building her own credit score and getting financial stability.

Love is number 1 with this girl and everything else will just fall in place.

For the most part love is 1, family is 2, hobbies are 3 and career is four.

But sure to happen, this lady will only be attracted to her opposite, a mental male.  This is were the problem begins.  The mental male is opposite of her in every way.  I repeat in every way.  Opposites attract.  So for awhile everything seems perfect.  The couple goes through the honeymoon period.  This could last from weeks to years and then the boredom of the mental male sets in and the break up happens.

Now the emotional  female is devastated.  She bonded so well to her partner...just like super glue.  Unfortunately, the partner does not bond because of love.  Recovery from this could take some time and great losses in her life could occur.

So how does the sweet personality avoid this mishap in her life.  It is easy ....never never never fall in love before the ring  is on the finger, the roof is put over the head, the food is on the table, and the money is committed to the relatioship ...her money and his money combined for a life style.  For marriage is a business.  It is done in the court house with legal contracts that are difficult at times to break.

So in the dark wee hours of nightfall, when you hear the words, I LOVE YOU, just say and what will you do about it and when.

Hopefully, you can gain insight into the ups and downs of finding a mate.  Hopefully you can prvent the devastation that can occur from a broken heart.  Go slow in giving your heart away and have an assurance that love will be respected, appreciated and so well received.

I will tell you about the other three personalities in later blogs.

  Blessings 

 Anna