THE MENTAL MALE
One of the main four personality types is the mental male. About eighty - five percent of men fall in this catergory. If you are an emotional female this is most likly the personality of your significant other. The reason being opposites attract.
The mental male is a logical thinker. He is mainly focused on money or business. This man is aggressive about his career. Work is fun and a challenge to him. He is the man that slayed the dragons in days gone by.
His second area of interest is his hobbies. In his non working hours he is into sports or what trips his imagination in a competitive way. He likes to compete.
His third area of interest is his family. He is generally responsible for his children. He likes to see his children become sucessful people. After all their sucess reflects on him.
The fourth area of focus is his love life. This fact is a concern for his significant other whose first focus is the her love life. The mental male enjoys his love life for pleasure and has no emotional attachment in the intimate behavior. This is another concern for his partner the emotional female who considers intimate behavior as love and most important in her life. This fact is what causes all the turmoil, divorces, disloyality and years of sadness. Most mental males are disloyal out of boredom but most are smart enough not to get caught.
So the answer to this continual problem might be ...to look at people like Jackie Kennedy, Hillary Clinton, Eleanor Roosevelt, Princess Diane as a guide to what the emotional female can do to weather the storms. Because the storms are very likely to occur.
Bottom line is the mental male thinks with very little emotion. He is logical. He is focused on getting what he wants. The lady he wants as a partner improves his self image. She may be beautiful , smart and educated, a good mother for his children or wealthy. The way to this man heart is through his hobbies as that is what he enjoys when not making money. Certainly not his money and certainly not his unemotional intimate life. Being an accepting friend is the best bet.
By the way, when a lady meets a mental male, he will appear as if he is very emotional. He will be loving, attentive, excited about his intimate life and adoring. Once he knows you have fallen in love and he is secure, then and only then, will he return to who he really is the mental man. It will be like night and day. So expect the big change for it will surely happen.