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Are you looking for someone to say what you want them to say?

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When you go for a reading, are you going to get the truth of a reading; or a you hoping the reader will say a certain thing? Are you wishing things would get better, though all signs point they are heading the opposite way? Sometimes we must hear hard things about our situations..but we will be okay..There is always a remedy for all our pain; and another path to take, when the one we are on seems to lead us the wrong direction.

We are here to help you find the right path and help you read the signs along the way. Sometimes, though, we need to say change directions, move on, or you need to let go.

It's good to remember that a relationship takes two to work out.. if there is trouble ..there may be one who is more responsible than the other for the trouble; but each person is responsible for the resolution. If there is nothing that can be done to fix the problems; we need to move on .

Every person is deserving of respect and proper treatment. If someone you are with is continually hurting you and disappointing you and making you feel less that you deserve. You need to see what can be done. Can the situation be fixed? Or, are you in an abusive relationship that will only get worse?

Loving someone doesn't mean you allow them to treat you less than you deserve. Sometimes we have to love people at a distance because when we are close they hurt us and disrespect us and make us feel miserable. You deserve total respect and someone who will put you first if you are in an exclusive relationship with someone. If you are not getting that: it's time to talk.. Will they listen ?Will they change?

If you are okay with an open relationship.. this is different. But, if you understanding of what you have is to be just you and the other; then you cannot allow for all the others who keep sharing your other half.. You need to sit down and talk and consider what can be done, if anything. You deserve to be heard and loved and to be number one in the heart of the one you are in a relationship with: don't settle for number two.

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