Are you doing something that pushes your partner away.. Is is possible that the problem is not "the other person" could it be that the problem is solved when you see that you are part of the problem: that both of you are doing things that make the problem exist.. It's never just one person's fault.. really it isn't!
Sometimes it's good to have someone neutral hear what's happening...It's also good to follow the advice of someone who sees it from a better view .. When you are in the middle of something.. it's hard to see things clearly .. you are too close to the problem.
If you are having problems in a relationship.. the solution may come when you stop seeing the other person as the problem.. Start seeing the problem as something you both need to work on .. that somehow both you need to change what you are doing..because what is happening now is not working..
Ask yourself: what do I need to change? THink of ten nice things your partner is doing right.. before you pick on the one wrong thing he/she is doing wrong..
There is light at the end of the tunnerl.. If you are willing to look for it.![]()
Sometimes it's good to have someone neutral hear what's happening...It's also good to follow the advice of someone who sees it from a better view .. When you are in the middle of something.. it's hard to see things clearly .. you are too close to the problem.
If you are having problems in a relationship.. the solution may come when you stop seeing the other person as the problem.. Start seeing the problem as something you both need to work on .. that somehow both you need to change what you are doing..because what is happening now is not working..
Ask yourself: what do I need to change? THink of ten nice things your partner is doing right.. before you pick on the one wrong thing he/she is doing wrong..
There is light at the end of the tunnerl.. If you are willing to look for it.