that a phone call to a reader will NOT instantly transform YOUR life....
We are HUMAN and not ALL knowing. .
It will NOT instantly FIX your problems....
It will NOT transform YOUR relationship...
It will NOT deliver that dream job to YOUR door....
This is YOUR life and the success of YOUR life depends on YOUR full participation in that life.......
It depends on YOU taking responsibility for the choices YOU make....
If you want that job, then send out resumes, it will NOT just arrive for you.....and keep looking, do not give up easily, even if you feel like it.
If you want that man/woman back...then do not let the man/woman think that you are all hot air and threats...most people do not like drama and allowing our emotions to keep us hostage only serves to push people away not draw them towards us.
Do not incessantly call or contact the person, give them the time and respect to come to you....they will in their own time....IF they want you back....allow them that choice...
We do not all react to things the same way....others do not always get the *script* that we had wanted for any issue....
Do not PUSH the speed you want to move things forward upon others, it may not be their speed....negotiation is key....give and take...a relationship that moves too quickly can lack the good foundation that makes relationships last ( not always but it can't) YOU and you alone teach people how to treat you, so if you have badly trained the person you're involved with, they know no different. If you always fix things, they will wait for you to fix it again. If you always contact they will wait because YOU showed them that's how you operate. Patterns are formed easily and hard to break. But you need to take responsibility for those patterns of bad behavior, since you created them !!
Use readings as a reference not as a road map, use them as a guide and don't try to control situations with readings as over dependence on them can end up working against you ...they work better used as a guide and like with a navigation system, it's not perfect science, but what can you expect when you put a human with all of their messy emotions into the mix?... :-)
Joan
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We are HUMAN and not ALL knowing. .
It will NOT instantly FIX your problems....
It will NOT transform YOUR relationship...
It will NOT deliver that dream job to YOUR door....
This is YOUR life and the success of YOUR life depends on YOUR full participation in that life.......
It depends on YOU taking responsibility for the choices YOU make....
If you want that job, then send out resumes, it will NOT just arrive for you.....and keep looking, do not give up easily, even if you feel like it.
If you want that man/woman back...then do not let the man/woman think that you are all hot air and threats...most people do not like drama and allowing our emotions to keep us hostage only serves to push people away not draw them towards us.
Do not incessantly call or contact the person, give them the time and respect to come to you....they will in their own time....IF they want you back....allow them that choice...
We do not all react to things the same way....others do not always get the *script* that we had wanted for any issue....
Do not PUSH the speed you want to move things forward upon others, it may not be their speed....negotiation is key....give and take...a relationship that moves too quickly can lack the good foundation that makes relationships last ( not always but it can't) YOU and you alone teach people how to treat you, so if you have badly trained the person you're involved with, they know no different. If you always fix things, they will wait for you to fix it again. If you always contact they will wait because YOU showed them that's how you operate. Patterns are formed easily and hard to break. But you need to take responsibility for those patterns of bad behavior, since you created them !!
Use readings as a reference not as a road map, use them as a guide and don't try to control situations with readings as over dependence on them can end up working against you ...they work better used as a guide and like with a navigation system, it's not perfect science, but what can you expect when you put a human with all of their messy emotions into the mix?... :-)
Joan