An open letter, Shaman advice for the single girl.
If a man wants you he will come across a crowded room to get your phone number. If he calls you on Friday afternoon and wants to see you Friday night you’re a booty call. More than likely the other girls he knows have turned him down and you’re the low hanging fruit. That means your not his 1st choice. If he is thinking about you the way you want him to think about you, then he will plan at least three days in advance.
I know this sounds like your playing a game, and in a way you are. Men are hunters, we don’t hunt low hanging fruit, we just use it. We value what we have to work for, we long for it, we brag about that great move we made to get our girl. If a man asks you to call him don’t do it, it’s a trap. He is a player, and wants to show the other guys how awesome he is and how much women love him by having you call him. Don’t play their games, pay your game.
Don’t be the girl who answers the phone like your eagerly waiting for it. Let him call three or four times before you answer. Keep the call short, don’t tell him what your doing. Just say I have a million things to do. A guy always wants what he can’t have, be mysterious, hard to get. If he wants to see you and it’s not within out three day planning cycle then tell him, “gosh I wish you would have called sooner, I’m busy.” The right man is trainable, if he won’t be trained you don’t want him anyway.
Call me and lets see where your plan is going wrong and lets fix it.
Walks With Thunder.
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