His Calls are Coming in Less & Less , He's Breaking Dates & Simply Not as Attentive as He Use to Be....I Remember When his Eyes Lit Up When He Seen Me , Called During Lunch Breaks to Say He Missed Me & Couldnt Wait to Make Love.....Is it Another Woman ? Has He Fallen Out of Love ? Is this the Beginning of the End ?.......
First in Any Issue You Must Respect the " Unconditional Friendship" You Both have Developed Over Time...That Means #1 Make Certain He is Okay , Express to Him "Lovingly & Calmly" You've Noticed Him Distancing and are Concerned if "HE" is Allright ....Many Times More Often than Not , Our Man is going through Rough Patches in Life that are causing him Anxiety & he Withdrawls till Corrected....This is Where Many Women Make the Mistake of immediatly Without Questioning Cop a Nasty Attitude assume the Worst he's Cheating ect ect Causing Your Man to Retreat even more so ! Remember He is "Your Friend" You Love Him & Care For His Well Being , Right? You Wouldnt Jump Down a Females Friends Throat if she started to Behave Differently ...You'd Ask if She is Okay .....
Relationships Do Go through Ups & Downs ...even Long Term Relationships its Very Common to Question if You Truly Love Your Mate from Time to Time ...suddenly you just Feel like Being Alone having Down Time ...after Several Days Alone You See Your Mate & they Do or Say Something Funny , You See that Cute Smile & Think YEAH I Love My Baby What Was I Thinking :) ...It Happens ...There is an Eb & Flo in Love & Peaks & Valleys in Life We Must Soldier Through With Class .....
If You Find Your Man Continuing to Disengage for a Long Period of Time getting Worse , Even After You had the Above "Concerned for You Conversation" ....You MUST Respect His Space....Everyone has the Right to Choose What is Best for Them & Feel as They Do...All the Selling Yourself , Pleading , Whining , Threatening , Insulting , Interrogating Will Turn him off "Permanently" & Make You Look & Feel Pathetic...This is the Time for YOU to Take Care of YOU and Sweetly Lovingly give him even More Space than he ever Dreamed of WITHOUT an Attitude (Hey You're Backing Off to Please Him & Honor his Wishes)
Get Your Hair Done , Go to the Gym , Purchase New Clothes , Mani , Pedis, Go Out Socialize ....Then HE Will Wonder WHY? You arent Sweating Him ? Hmmmm? Does She Have Someone Better ? Is SHE losing Interest in ME ? Why is She Looking So Good & Happy ??? "I" havent been around her Way Hmmmm?????
She doesnt call Me Back till the Next Day Now ??? Why ??? She's cutting our Phone Conversations Short Hmmmmm??? Her Car isnt in the Driveway at Night Hmmm???? I think You get it Ladies...Sometimes a Man May have to Feel he has Lost You to VALUE You ....To Not Take Your Kindness for a Weakness or Take You For Granted... He Needs a "Loving" Nudge or Wake Up NOT Call to remind him he Does Love You & doesnt want to Lose You....Angel Blessings Of Love Light & Laughter ...Channa ...I am Usually On Keen Mornings Eastern Time !!![]()
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