What that means is that my readings help you bring about what you want. How? Other than the giving a person a fish and teaching them how to fish thing, it's because within our wholeness, IS everything. It's the part of us that knows how to step into any reality we want, and bring about what we want.
When we incarnate, we do play the 'game' of "I've forgotten where I come from".
We do this honestly, to maintain an integrity of a 'new' experience. I'm always telling people that 'time' is all happening at once, that the 'reality' we want called the 'future' is really happening now and all we have to do is tap into that 'now'. How we do this is with focus. The 'bigger' part of us centers in on a focus and we 'block' the other 'focus's to speak. Tho really, it's just about 'directing' or intention.
When we choose this particular incarnation, and our specific experiences in it, the 'bigger' Source part of us is not looking at the fact that it may be uncomfortable or painful. The bigger part of us does see that things can be 'intense' but it is not 'judging' that it is painful.
Our experiences are only a 'snippet' of our wholeness. Even when we are sad. Our 'wholeness' includes other experiences where we are not human, other dimensions where we are, etc. Everything we experience contributes to our expansion, to our expanding Source, yes, the same "Source" that is the 'all that is'.
So in a way this human lifetime that we are experiencing in this now, it is so large in our beingness of the present, and yet really kind of an in-breath and an out-breath of our greater self.
The more we evolve on these personal levels to know who and what we truly are as this multidimensional being and bring all that into play and down to earth in our daily lives ~ our lifestyle and how we think if you will ~ will automatically make 'suffering' less and less. But 'intensity' can anything then, we can take 'having to suffer' to experience anything out of the picture.
This wholeness of ourselves frees us up to have wonderful experiences. Karma and 'past lives' are automatically transformed when we give ourselves permission to experience 'more' of ourselves. After all, 'past lives' are just a 'story'.
'Reality' is simply where we focus. It doesn't matter where something 'originated', as things are all happening at once. It's always a 'frequency' we tap into that takes us there. I have litterly changed the 'past', and the 'future' with many things I have chosen to look at and feel differently with. If you are willing, I can help you do it too.
'Bad' experiences can be turned into the love they always were before we thought they were otherwise. When we acknowledge and embrace, we change the frequency. We change the energy surrounding or involved with whatever experience it is all the time, in every moment. It's not magical, it's physics.
So really, it doesn't matter whether what we call 'the story'is true or 'made up' it doesn't matter... according to Abe, Bashar, Seth and other conscious awareness teachers, if we can 'imagine' it, it IS real somewhere, or we simply could not have imagined it.
The bottom line is whatever the feeling is, To transformed from fear to love. Of course we may create a story that brings forth the feelings of great joy and playfulness and love and acceptance, etc. All of it is just about the feeling, not about the story.
Everything, everything is an 'inside job'.