Does he tell you he's too busy? That he isn't ready? That he just wants to have fun and not be serious because if it's serious he won't enjoy the relationship anymore? Does he disappear and not want to see you on important dates? Ladies, I know you love him, but chances are he's not going to shift anytime soon unless he has a reason to. These men do not like to be pressured, are controlling and have been caught in a lie or two, have they not? And, we don't trust these types of men. So, why do we want them so badly?
The truth is, it has to do with our own self worth issues. It's an unconscious idea that if we don't think we are worth having, and we don't want to date anyone stupid, then any man worth his weight in salt will see that and not commit to us. That is OUR belief about ourselves, NOT his. By allowing this, you are reinforcing your unconscious belief system about yourself and continuing to believe the lie. Otherwise, we would be interested in someone who was interested in us and wanted to treat us like we are the beautiful souls that we truly are! Men like this are afraid of love. They are just as afraid to love as they are to receive it because if they were to allow that to happen, they would open up their hearts and the pain for them would be immense. Or, at least that's the lie they believe.
So, if this is you and you wish to shift this, there is a way! First, you MUST change the belief system you have about yourself. Because, if this scenario is happening to you, I promise you that the belief system of your self worth is there, whether you are aware of it or not. Once that shifts, your energy will allow yourself to be loved and you may just get that man who wont commit after all!
Regardless, we can not change someone else. The only thing we can do is grow and become more and more beautiful every day and watch the world shift around us. Things do change as we grow into loving ourselves, I promise!!
All My Love,
xoxoxoxoxo
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The truth is, it has to do with our own self worth issues. It's an unconscious idea that if we don't think we are worth having, and we don't want to date anyone stupid, then any man worth his weight in salt will see that and not commit to us. That is OUR belief about ourselves, NOT his. By allowing this, you are reinforcing your unconscious belief system about yourself and continuing to believe the lie. Otherwise, we would be interested in someone who was interested in us and wanted to treat us like we are the beautiful souls that we truly are! Men like this are afraid of love. They are just as afraid to love as they are to receive it because if they were to allow that to happen, they would open up their hearts and the pain for them would be immense. Or, at least that's the lie they believe.
So, if this is you and you wish to shift this, there is a way! First, you MUST change the belief system you have about yourself. Because, if this scenario is happening to you, I promise you that the belief system of your self worth is there, whether you are aware of it or not. Once that shifts, your energy will allow yourself to be loved and you may just get that man who wont commit after all!
Regardless, we can not change someone else. The only thing we can do is grow and become more and more beautiful every day and watch the world shift around us. Things do change as we grow into loving ourselves, I promise!!
All My Love,
xoxoxoxoxo