Something I get calls about quite often is will my lover return to me? While every individual, situation, and relationship is unique, there is something quite a few of us seem to forget in the haze of our emotional turmoil. Yes, they very may well return, however should you allow them back if they did? If you had a relationship that was for the most part healthy and good, and there were just some things that were problematic that caused a hasty breakup, whether by stubbornness or through an argument that turned a bit too heated, but overall it was a good relationship, then yes you may very well regret it if they returned and you did not take them back. HOWEVER!! If the entire relationship was filled with mistrust, disrespect, unfaithfulness (on a repeated basis, not just a one time thing), abuse, anger, jealousies, possessiveness, arguments, lack of compassion; if this person disregarded your feelings and just suddenly disappeared with no explanation or left you for another - then no you most certainly should not take them back. I know, but you loved them, felt a connection, saw a future; I must be crazy to tell you to focus on moving forward and moving on, that you deserve better. BUT YOU DO DESERVE BETTER!! You deserve a relationship where you can trust your partner, feel comfortable and comforted with them, loved and accepted, cherished and respected. You deserve that even should things end, this person would have the common decency to tell you how they feel and that they cannot be with you any longer without just disappearing into the night as if your whole experience with them was nothing to them and just a wild illusion. It may hurt, you will feel sad, you may feel you are owed an explanation, apology, to have them grovel at your feet for what they did to you and that even if you chose not to take them back at least you are getting closure. But think of this, every second wasted thinking of someone who chose to treat you that way is a second you waste not loving yourself. Every day you hold out hope for their return is a day you wasted not being open to the Universe's gentle push towards the one who will love you. Why give away your time, your power, your energy and feelings to someone who did not do the same for you? They don't deserve it and you deserve better. Free up your life, your soul, your heart and your mind from the negative and open yourself to the joy and beauty and love someone else will come along to share with you, that you can manifest in yourself. You deserve better! If you would like an honest and clear, accurate answer on if your lover will return, should you take them back, when will I meet someone new; call me I have the answers!![]()
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