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Jan. 15th 2013: This post is generating such a tremndous response along with lot of mail & personal opinions of people from all nationalities & backgrounds, that when I was asked to repost it, I was not about to refuse. It is such a joy to be able to be of assistance & support for so many women & men who can relate to this topic and are having trouble discerning between their LOVERS playing a 'GAME ' and ben genuinly "-INTERESTED" or "NOT" ...So thank you for reading this as nothing makes me happier than knowing you can be helped in just 1 READING, And that you DO KNOW NOW THAT YOU ABSOLUTELY HAVE SOME ONE TO TURN TO (ME)
When you need advice about the details of this topic. Sincerely, KNOW4URE Here for you via APPOINTMNT or ARRANG A CALL Ext. 04404500
Ladies,
We need to talk.
You see, Lately It seems as though we're
getting a little out of control...Its like our
hormones are raging so badly that they are
doing all the thinking and talking for us, And
instead of being centered and 'head strong' ,
Our decisions are no longer carefully thought
out choices we're making, but rather
CIRCUMSTANCES WE FIND OURSELVES IN
so we loosely title those "Decisions" .
We carry ourselves (Some of us at least ) like Desperate
previously caged animals who
have been set "FREE AT LAST", and is it just
me or do we seem to be
competing for the ATTENTION &
affections of the same man ? -
(Like he's the last man left on earth !) when
he's probably the same man our friend is
pursuing or even worse (oops) dating!
We constantly Dog , text, belittle each other
then email friendly HEARTS to mask our
feelings & insecurities on each others' social
networking pages ...
and we invest all this
effort into a project (that for the purposes of
this blog, I decided to name; )
CHASING & PURSUING MEN .
See, Its 1 thing to spot a gorgeous hunk when
we're out and about. Its even ok to give him
your number so that he can call and ask you
out. But there is something horribly wrong
with our sitting at home, putting our life on
hold because we're waiting for the phone to
ring, so that we can then feel good about who
we are as women and hold ourselves in high
regard all because some guy that we
happened to meet a few days ago ( God forbid
if it takes longer than a week for him to call
us !) . . .
That's when the fear , the panic set in :
"Why doesn't he want me? Why is he not
calling? Did I give him the right number?"
Its like our life depends on it. "Doesn't he
want to get to know me? I thought we'd be
out on our 2nd date by now, its been 8 days,
I cant believe I have no news to share with
the girls, I am sure that psychic said we'd be
engaged by April, Well, How is that going to
happen if he has not taken me out yet, Or
even called, And he still has to introduce me
to his parents and I have to make them like
me, That is so important according to what
the magazine said about his culture. OMG
What if I end up alone for the rest of my life?"
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" CHASING MEN "
I trust you will enjoy this post.
When did we start chasing men?
When did it become ‘ok’ or ‘wise’ to throw ourselves at the
guy we want?
Have I been asleep all this time and missed an entire
decade? Cuz I feel like there's a generation gap, a thought
process 'Barrier' between me and a few other women these
days.
I’m talking about all nationalities.
Successful, From well to do families, beautiful women who
are constantly calling me for a reading to see if they can
and how to - outdo the girl that is pursuing the same guys
they are after.
I understand that technically there's a shortage of men out
there (The ratio of men to women is slightly smaller)
However, Why fight for someone when you truly VALUE
YOUR SELF?
Do you think the guy will VALUE your attention when
you're throwing yourself at him? -
For about 5 minutes perhaps, until the next girl comes
along.
And since all your attempts at snagging him have failed,
isn’t it time to come to a logical conclusion: That what
you've been doing is not working and its time to change
tactics?!
These are rhetorical questions I’m putting out there.
I have to. I feel compelled to do so since I get so many calls
about the same subject.
Sometimes I wonder if by some ‘freak coincidence’ they are
all calling about the same guy...
Have you ever asked yourself if your guy is calling a psychic
to ask about you?
We see this similar situation play out in the movie
“My best friends' Wedding” When Julia Roberts Character
is seen chasing Hugh Grant who is busy chasing Cameron
Diaz and Julia Roberts' best friend is watching it all as he’s
driving and asks her:
"He's chasing her, you're chasing him but who’s' chasing
you?"
Ahhh...That was a light bulb moment for me.
Why?
Because the answer was:
No one.
No one was chasing me.
Because I, too, was busy pursuing an 'image' of the ideal
man that I thought I found...Chasing my own fantasy guy.
I could not get him to love / call / Need me because I was
too busy running after him to do be doing what I should
have been doing all along Which is;
LOVING ME.
We forget that by pouring all our energies into pursuing
someone we are actually giving them our power.
We don’t realize that we have not yet fallen in love or even
gotten to know ourselves before we began chasing this
person.
That is why when we do catch him, we don’t know how to
keep him.
INVESTING IN YOUR OWN SELF IMPROVEMENT & SELF
LOVE is the
‘GIFT THAT KEEPS GIVING’...
It’s NECESSARY for us to experience loneliness and be ok
with it before we can be great partners to our guy.
Why are we so afraid of being alone? – This in itself is an
issue.
If you don’t like your own company, don’t expect anyone
else to enjoy it either.
Yes, I’m being kinda harsh in this post, but I’m doing it
because I care.
Too many GOOD PEOPLE are looking for VALIDATION
from the outside world when they will only ever find the
real thing by going inward.
Don’t waste another moment feeling lonely.
Grab that book you’ve always wanted to read, Drive to that
beautiful place you’ve been planning to visit and get in
touch with your self: You will never be lonely again.
And when you come home…You just might have a voice
mail from that guy you’ve been thinking about…Asking you
to call him, As he’s been trying to CHASE YOU DOWN all
day and wants you to call him back, So that you can get
together.
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opinion and input
Thanking you for reading this
creative input
Warmly,
Jazzy
KNOW4SURE
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