Online dating has become big business. People are happily finding their mates in this manner. You just need to be aware of some of the tricks of the trade.
First of all, begin by looking for the ads that speak of lifestyle and career paths. These people are the most stable. They are logical practical thinkers. They will look for logical practical mates. This is the kind of person that can have a relationship. They will be interested in your career and how you are making a peaceful secure life for yourself. This ad may also speak of free time activities.
The ad that speaks of sex is not going to lead to anything of a lasting serious nature.
The ad that speaks of physical charateristic is not going to work either. It will be just a surface situation.
If the ad is placed by a person who is not single, the relationship will be most likely disappointing and a waste of time. A person who is separated is not single.
The person that you decide to meet should arrange to meet in a short amount of time. Talking on the phone is just a cheap date and will not make for a serious relationship.
The first date should be in a very public place. It should be simple. Each person should drive their own car. McDonald's is a great place to meet.
After the meeting, there should be a background check. This is easily done on the internet by going into white pages on MSN. The person should be very open about how to be in touch. The truth about where they live and work should be made available within the next couple of weeks.
REMEMBER LONG TELEPHONE CONVERSATIONS ARE A WASTE OF TIME........SO GET OFF THE PHONE WITHIN 10 MINUTES.
Online dating has worked for me. I met my husband in 2001 on the internet. My friends have met their mates in this manner also. Many of my clients have had success with online dating.
The main thing is to look for logical, stable partners. The other people just will not work out.
Good luck and happy dating.
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