He says he still wants you, but it doesn’t feel the same. Something has changed and you can’t put your finger on it. You feel like you are doing all of the calling and decide to leave it up to him to call you. Unfortunately, you spend a lot of time waiting for him to call you. Why, you ask over and over, yet he keeps denying anything has changed. You can’t figure out what the problem is. When you push him for answers, it ends up in an argument. You are so confused and not sure what to do. Should you stay with him and try to work it out, or is it time to let him go?
Now your worrying goes into overdrive and every conceivable situation runs through your mind non-stop. Is he about to dump you, is there another woman, does he not find you attractive anymore, or has he lost interest? Eventually, you begin to be afraid that your constant questioning will end up driving him away even further. If left unchecked, all of this worry and anxiety will leave you feeling depressed, washed out, and exhausted.
Please consider calling me now! Many times, it is just the relationship going through a phase and it will recover over time. Other times, it is the beginning of the end and you need to brace yourself for what is about to come. How do you know the difference? Are you just worrying and causing yourself anxiety about a situation that will be resolved or is it something more serious? Sometimes, you may be too close to the subject to think about it objectively. Your worries and fears may be keeping you from seeing what is really going on. This is the time to call me! With my insight, I can alleviate your needless worry and help you see your relationship more clearly.